I ask this here because I am not interested in places like Friendster or MySpace; they seem to be dominated by the under-30 crowd. I was wondering what other sites are like Tribe; all-purpose forum systems, I guess you'd call them. In the old days, Usenet used to be a one-stop place to discuss specific and general topics, but I think its days are over. I like places like WetCanvas for the art community, but I'd really like to find a place that encompasses a large variety of interests.
Tribe has about outlived its interest for me. Not just the ads, but it seems to be losing momentum in general, not keeping up with the things I'd expect in a forum. So I'm curious where else online might fill this niche. Thanks!
Tribe has about outlived its interest for me. Not just the ads, but it seems to be losing momentum in general, not keeping up with the things I'd expect in a forum. So I'm curious where else online might fill this niche. Thanks!
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Tue, September 13, 2005 - 2:16 PMInteresting. I find tribe becoming more active, but it certainly depends on the tribes & people you find.
Most of the tribes I belong to are made up of people LOTS younger than me, but many are interested in similar things or there are active attempts at getting together for kayaking & camping, music, dancing, silliness or what have you, where the age issue isn't so important.
They tend to drink a hell of a lot more than I care to as well, which limits my involvement.
My impression is that it takes effort to make it work, which I am not always willing or able to give, but it seems to be essential for this to be successful/beneficial, etc.
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Tue, September 13, 2005 - 3:21 PMMaybe it's just that the tribes that I joined are winding down...this one hasn't had much traffic lately, for example. And a lot of the other ones I joined had a few messages in the beginning but are dead now.
I don't really care about getting together with people in real life, for the most part; I just like to discuss common interests. I've tried to singlehandedly revive a couple of tribes, and created a few, but they don't sustain the momentum. Maybe my interests are just too limited. :) -
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Tue, September 13, 2005 - 6:57 PMI started what was then called a "club" on Yahoo back in October of 1999. This was for people who had ever gone to school or taught in my old school district. It got off to a slow start until I found some other people that I knew from my home town. With the help of some of them recruiting online, the now "group" has grown to over 300 members -- the largest group of its kind for Washington on Yahoo.
I have found that activity is sporadic. Some weeks there'll be quite a few posts, and then a month or more will go by with nothing. As with all message clubs, groups, tribes, etc. you have to put a little effort into keeping it active by posting a question or comment frequently. If you don't get any response, then the members have lost interest, and you should look for tribes dedicated to your interests that have several recent messages.
My experience with the Yahoo groups of which I'm a member is that computer and software user help boards remain pretty active as long as people get answers to their questions in a timely manner. Other groups, tribes, etc. seem to come and go as the novelty wears off.
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Mon, September 19, 2005 - 5:47 AMYou could try The Well, which definitely favors an over-39 demographic. It charges a small monthly fee, though. -
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Tue, September 20, 2005 - 1:58 PMHi Sonya. I am interested in the same thing, a new online community where the focus is not Burning Man, or even meeting in person. Most online forums are focused on people meeting someone and getting together, but I'm interested in a place to discuss issues, every day life, current events. -
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Tue, September 20, 2005 - 2:30 PMHere's a link to a tribe I joined that might be of interest for those looking to discuss political issues. It gets pretty specific and sometimes a little hot, but everyone tries to respect one another.
The moderator is over 40 as are a few others. Most are 30somethings who care about these issues.
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Tue, September 20, 2005 - 6:58 PMThanks, Pak - I'll check that out!
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Mon, January 15, 2007 - 4:17 PMcranky.com/
I heard this site talked about on NPR. I havent gone thru it, but it said it is an age specific search engine.....
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Tue, September 20, 2005 - 6:58 PMHa - I know what you mean. The words "Burning Man" on my screen make me cringe and hit cmd-W. I still don't know of any good alternates to Tribe that aren't subject-specific, but if I hear of any, I'll let you know.
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Wed, September 21, 2005 - 4:39 PM
You might want to take a look at Usenet again. I have been reading it again in the last 6 months after a bunch of years away. What I notice is that a lot of the spam is now taken care of at the server level, and one doesn't even have to kill it. Although it does have somewhat of a different flavor than it had in the "old days" -- not completely sure how to characterize it.
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Wed, September 21, 2005 - 10:27 PMReally? Ok, I'll take a look, thanks. I keep a newsreader around for accessing the binaries groups. :) -
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Wed, September 21, 2005 - 11:15 PM
I've only ever kept up with pure text groups, so the plight of the binaries groups might be completely different, I haven't a clue.
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Thu, September 22, 2005 - 10:55 AMI haven't looked in depth beyond some binaries groups and an occasional foray into reading about learning disabilities, etc. Its always been full of crapola, but not very hard to circumvent the stuff. The titles themselves are pretty much a dead giveaway. And forteinc still gives away Free Agent, which is all I need for my purposes.
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Fri, December 1, 2006 - 4:32 PMI haven't really checked out Myspace much, but may soon. The little time I've spent there has been tough because I have dial-up, and the pages tend to be image-saturated, and thus slow to load.
I know what you mean, though.
Tribe is great, but seems to be skewed towards a certain demographic.
Which is fine, but I wonder , where, for example, would my college history professor hang out online?
Not on Tribe, I don't think, just because there doesn't seem to be many people here who seem to share that particular interest. -
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Wed, December 6, 2006 - 10:30 PMMy experience is that over 50% of those who join any of these boards only join and never actually participate even one time.
I found Tribes in its first few months of existence and I made it my duty to contact every soul over 39 I could search out. I was amazed on how responsive and positive people are to join something when simply asked. For a while there was a core bunch here and it was a nice retreat from the 13 to 35 know-it-alls like my son's. I have long stopped recruiting and I get several requests to join this tribe each week now. I suppose it would be very helpful if all of you asked a few others to join as there does need to be a core active group that keeps the fire burning.
Unfortunately, boomers were not raised on PC's so we may never see our generation build a strong community on the web? My space is too much for me. I like debates on matters of things more important than what is happening on TV and in Rap music. It's funny because all of my now adult children have the TV going while listening to music, playing an interactive video game with a team of fifty people, and chatting in several text windows ALL AT THE SAME TIME.
What the hell are we creating?
Unlike many here, I would enjoy meeting real human beings once in a while for a beer or a coffee and to chat about some topic of interest or partake in some common activity. I am bored to death with text, but I sure have learned a lot about myself in the process of exchanging words on this screen. I have kept a copy of nearly everything I have posted and it is now 418 pages of text. Maybe it would make an interesting book in and of itself as I have debated with every type of personality on religion, politics, public education, propaganda, mass media, historical events and people, music, culture, and on and on.
I have to laugh when I look back on the stuff that flows out of me for example:
“I am starting to think that we should castrate any man who impregnates and deserts three or more women in his life and I am a liberal! Three strikes and no balls will be the slogan.”
An oddity about this tribe is that is a topic-free tribe in a topic based universe. Oddly there are times when people will complain when a topic starts to get heated and some people will say “what does that have to do with being happy to be over 39.” That makes we chuckle as the only point of this tribe is that you admit to being over 39, everything else is fair game and a lot about life over 39 is not 100% happy. Some younger folks have found there way in here, but I have never kicked anyone out. I did have to remove a photo of a penis once. That was funny too because one person said something like “if you must post a penis, at least post one that isn’t so small.”
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Fri, January 12, 2007 - 2:17 PMWhat about happy to be over 49? There is something to be said for having "survived" parenthood and bad marriages. And its almost like a get out of jail free card...... ;-) I just wish I could stay at this stage for longer. I keep hearing about the "60's" (as in the age 60) for women.... Nora Ephron just published a book and Diane Keaton has a new movie out that sort of "discuss" this.......
The only REAL problem I had with age was when I turned 48.... don't know why. I really struggled that year. Maybe it was because I realized I wasn't 20 anymore. Some suggested it was because I didn't have much to look forward to.
Actually I took real offense to that view.... I have LOTS to look forward to! both professionally and personally!!!! both short term and long term.
In fact... I still haven't figured out what I want to be yet or who I want to be.... LOL.
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Thu, February 8, 2007 - 7:19 PMI used the link that Alice posted here a couple of weeks ago and joined eons.com. The site is strictly for those of us over the age of 50. So far, I've only joined two of the groups there. There's quite a diversity of interests on the site and the folks that I've corresponded with seem to be friendly and interested in each other. No reason why one can't belong to Tribes, Yahoo, Eons, etc. all at the same time.
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