Has everyone over 39 died?

topic posted Thu, April 12, 2007 - 11:49 PM by 
Hi everyone. All of you represent a unique group of individuals who have all made the decision to join this tribe. Unfortunately, it seems the concept was good (people over 39), but the motivation to participate is gone. I admit, I am as guilty as all of you. I started this tribe because I grew tired of fighting with children who have not yet gained the simple experience of growing up. Tribe.net is full of know-it-all children who totally disrespect their elders. I have learned from those children that it is TOTALLY are own fault for their disrespect of us. At first I did not agree, but now I do, because our generation had failed them. We have allowed the greedy and corrupt among us take control of everything. We have allowed all the jobs we once enjoyed to be exported to China. We have allowed corporations to destroy the family and the family business. We have allowed the schools to become day care centers. We have allowed our government representatives to be be corrupted by gifts and donations from global corporations to the point where our vote and our voice is not even heard.

Frankly, I could write 1,000 pages of reasons to support my position here. The question is: DOES ANY OF US REALLY CARE? Shit, we will all be dead in fifteen to thirty-five years. We are all passed the half-way point and there is no return for us. What is it that we as a generation want to leave behind as a legacy of who we were as a people, as the children of the 60's and 70's?

Do you want the bull shit image of drugged out hippies being the image of who we are as a generation? I enjoyed the rock and roll and the parties, but I never stopped trying to grow and improve. Somehow, the message of growing and improving has been edited out of who we are as a generation.

This board is one of the few places in life where we can say whatever the hell we want to say. Our boss can't say anything about what we say here, nobody even knows who we actually are in real life. So why not make this board the place where you take a stand and tell the world what it is really on your mind. Give the youth something to really think about, something that can help them find a better future.

I wish I could meet everyone of you before I pass away, but sadly I will most likely not meet a single soul here. So, all we have is a text based reality (with a few graphics) to share; but, this is a lot better than nothing at all.

So tell me, what is on your mind today my fellow elders of a misrepresented generation?
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    Re: Has everyone over 39 died?

    Sat, April 14, 2007 - 8:44 PM
    Thanks Reverend. Nice to hear it every so often. We Need to keep up the communication. And yet as you stated we have gained some knowledge along the way and folks about this time in life gain some state of "being" which tends to make you more relaxed and patient... so we tend to not speak out as fervently. NOT!

    I tend to lecture more. Try to play the fool. Make fun of my faults. Same as before but now I'm cool cause I'm old enough for young people to just accept me as a smart, crazy person and they listen. Life still feels like tripping through time with the music up load. Making the trip worth while by making it yours.

    Those children are a reflection of our lives slightly advanced in the time line. (It's a complex web... )

    We as a group, exist in the sliding frame of time. Frozen in time, like a cliche. This by no means reduces the effect of our lives on other things. Now we are starting to see how those lessons we learned when we where young have long term meanings and warnings. It's not that we failed. It is about seeing that our fore fathers knew what we are during our growing up and gave us tools to guide us. We can continue those lessons in a new light for the next generation. But, I don't want to lose my identity. I am still this independent soul with fire and drive. We are still this group of "happy to be over 39."

    Let's rise up again. The spring is calling and summer's full heat is coming. Shake off the shackles of winter's freeze. Find some adventure for ourselves while remembering what we stand for. What we can do for life.

    Thanks again Reverend. For the invitation. For the opportunity. I may be getting older, but I'm still alive.
    • Re: Has everyone over 39 died?

      Sat, April 14, 2007 - 10:43 PM
      yes alive. But really tired alot of the time.
      • Re: Has everyone over 39 died?

        Sun, April 29, 2007 - 1:30 PM
        still here, but life gets in the way of online time, and lately i've mostly been just checking in on the tribes i moderate. things on the internet ebb and flow, i've found.

        i finally had some time to be lazy and sit and go through all the unread tribes i have, and pare down a bit, so hopefully this tribe won't get lost in the shuffle!
  • Re: Has everyone over 39 died?

    Wed, May 2, 2007 - 6:36 PM
    Tribe was getting really tiresome there for a while; I stopped participating at all for - what, a year or more? Then recently I got a sad little email from one of the owners, the same one everyone probably got: please come back, we don't suck (or at least, not so much). So I dropped in again this afternoon. I keep hoping the place will pick up a bit, but it still seems so dead around here. The interface does seem better. Not sure I find much of anything else to do here, but I always liked this group. I joined when I was 39, and now I'm 41! Yow.
    • Re: Has everyone over 39 died?

      Wed, May 2, 2007 - 7:23 PM
      Sonya,
      I was finding the same thing. I didn't leave this time though ( I had one time previously for over a year) I kept posting. I own 5 tribes here and kept adding threads of information to them. It has only been in the last 2 weeks that the main one I own has had 3 or more posts a day in it. So for know I can say that I'm a happy camper!!!
      • Re: Has everyone over 39 died?

        Sat, May 5, 2007 - 8:55 AM
        Amethyst, that's good to hear. I always thought Tribe had a lot of potential, and I still do believe that, but I'm not sure it's always been well-managed.

        I tried out Gather.com for a while but it didn't take long to turn me off that site; even though they initially advertised on NPR, the level of discourse seemed pretty low. Then they started placing ads on the Bill O'Reilly show and that did it; I logged out permanently. I still have a little hope that Tribe will be the place I imagine it could be, and your post is encouraging.
  • Re: Has everyone over 39 died?

    Wed, May 16, 2007 - 8:21 AM
    The way I see it God has certain things he wants me to do in this life. So far I am so far behind I will Never die!

    My mom was a stay at home mom with us 5 kids. I had to work and my daughter hated that. Now that the chickens have come home to roost ,so to speak, other influences on her were stronger than mine and our relationship is not wonderful now that she is grown.

    I feel sorry for teens today. What must they think of the way we have mishandled so many issues that will effect their future. So many parents that work have given them so much in place of themselves, they are so greedy and demanding. In the sexual arena how will they ever be able to really love anyone if there's 'love' without committment?
    Do teens have any heros these days besides rock , punk & hop music stars and sports celebs?

    I fought Nafta tooth and nail , to no success. I hate that our government spent our tax money to help all those businesses get established overseas; even ones that were making a good profit yet left their employees out on the street for greater bucks.I think it has sapped the creative energy of Americans now that we don't design and make so many things.

    In defence I create my own little world and am happy living in it. I ignore most bad news, politics, and the like, although I am an aminal protection advocate, try to understand this global warming, chemtrails, and greening of America.
  • Re: Has everyone over 39 died?

    Thu, January 31, 2008 - 6:31 PM
    Not yet.
    • Re: Has everyone over 39 died?

      Sun, March 2, 2008 - 11:05 PM
      Just peeking in here again. Hello all.

      I found Tribes on a random search a few months after they started in 2003. I was closer to 40 than 50, so I picked "Happy to be over 39." I am now 50 and still happy, but there is something not sounding so good about "Happy to be over 49." :-(

      I noticed Tribes wants money now. I have to admit that I did get a lot of mileage out of this service. I paid for a year out of respect for the past, but have found a better way to engage my time which I will share with you.

      Look for the Post titled “I found Plan B.”

      Rev

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